First Kiss How To

Most men want to know how to initiate the first kiss. Findout if the girl is ready to be kissed by you before you go for that first kiss.

 Here are few ways tofind out if the girl wants to kiss you as well:

1.         Gentlystroke the hair of this girl and see how she responds.

2.         Hold herhands and gently squeeze them.

3.         Brush herarm.

Measure her responses to your moves. If she respondspositively to two of those then you know she is ready to be kissed by you.Don’t worry if she does not squeeze your hand back or doesn’t brush your arm.She is ready to be kissed as long as she does not ask you to stop or walk awayfrom you.

At this point take a step towards her or slowly pull hertowards you. Then look into her eyes, slowly lean forward and gently kiss heron the lips. It is always better to give her a quick peck first then go for alonger kiss.

You can always pull back before you go for the next/longkiss but I advice not to. It is better to stay in the kiss position and plantanother kiss right away. You can always look into her eyes, or hold her handsor hold her on the waist before going for the next kiss, the longer kiss.

Once in a while the girl may be surprised that you kissedher or tried to kiss her. As a result it is also possible that she may pullback when you try to kiss her. This does not necessarily mean that she does notwant to get romantically involved with you. Neither does it mean that she doesnot want to be kissed by you.

She might have pulled back because she was not expecting akiss at that moment. May be you did not give her enough indicators to expect akiss at that moment.

If you have performed the above three tests, chances arethat the girl will not pull back when you go for the kiss.

If the girl does not want you to kiss her she will tell youor walk away from you. If she does neither of those and continues to stay andparticipate you can conclude that she wants to be kissed by you.

Test her attraction again buy running the three tests oftouching her.

If the girl is comfortable with you touching her again thanyou know she sees you as a romantic interest and you can go for the kissagain.You should have no problem getting a good kiss this time for she will beexpecting it.

Here are few extra tips:

-           Make sureto use some breath fresheners or mint before you kiss the girl.

-           Don’t startprofessing your love to the girl right after you kiss her. It is too early inthe game.

-           Shave ifyou plan to go for a kiss.

-           Don’t tryto kiss her in front of her friends when you kiss her the first time.

-           It’s ok ifshe says no to kiss. Don’t fight or put her down for saying no. Don’t try topressure or convince her either.

-           You canmake things a bit more romantic by holding her hands or hold her on the hipswhen kissing. You could also whisper something in her ears between breaks fromkissing. Try playing with her hair. Most girls love it. Whisper and go back foranother kiss. Make it a long one this time.

-           It is tooobvious and boring to kiss at the end of the night. Be spontaneous by kissingher early in the night.

-           Don’t getall awkward after you kiss hey. Don’t go all sexual either unless you areabsolutely sure that she would be ok with it. You do not want to make thingsawkward or ruin the moment by coming across as uncomfortable or desperate.