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Posted on September 1, 2008 by Colette Stenson | Posted under   News and Society


Having an Affair - Clues Your Partner is Involved in an Affair



Believe it or not, usually it is pretty easy to tell when someone is having an affair. However, when it is your own spouse, it can be a bit more difficult, since you probably don't want to believe what is happening in front of your own eyes. If you are afraid that your spouse is having an affair, there are a variety of things that you can look into to figure out the truth. So, here are some of the top clues that your partner may be involved in an affair.

Your Friends are Acting StrangeOne clue that your spouse may be involved in an extramarital affair is that your friends begin to act very strange when they are around you. Perhaps they know about how your spouse has been cheating about you or they may have heard some stories. If they act very uncomfortable around you, then there may be something for you to worry about.

The Birth Control ClueAnother clue that your spouse could be having an affair is the birth control clue. If you notice that your wife is suddenly on the pill without telling you and you have had a vasectomy already, there may be some questions. Also, on the other hand, if you notice that your husband is suddenly carrying around condoms and he knows that you are on the pill, this may be a clue he is seeing someone else.

Calls are Being DeletedNoticing that your spouse is suddenly deleting all the calls on their cell phone or on your home caller ID? This could be a clue that they are having an affair with someone else. More than likely they are trying to cover their tracks and they aren't doing such a great job at it either. So, keep your eyes open for this clue.

Starts Being AccusatoryNotice that for some reason your spouse is beginning to be very accusatory asking you if you are cheating on him? Well, this could be his conscience. More than likely he is the one that is having the affair, and this is a top clue to watch out for.

Stops Being IntimateIf you notice that your spouse no longer wants to be intimate with you, this could be another clue that they are having an affair. Usually you'll find that intimacy is an important part of your relationship, and if it suddenly is not happening any more, you may have something to worry about.

Overtime without the PayLast of all, if you notice that suddenly your spouse is working a whole lot of overtime but you aren't seeing the pay come home on the check, they may be cheating on you. Many times this is just a way that they try to escape with their lover, so watch out if this begins to happen to you.



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