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Posted on October 2, 2008 by Freeda Poux | Posted under Dating
How To Flirt With Men: The Art Of Seduction
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First rule is to make eye contact. You must make him notice you, so you have to start from somewhere. This somewhere, when it comes to the art of seduction, is the eye contact. Do not just stare at him, he will feel embarrassed and it will not work that well, as the man will just take off, wondering what on earth was that. Throw a glance, then look down, or pretend to be interested about something around you, then throw a second glance. Try to transmit through these glances that he interests you. Do not frown and keep a little smile on your face. The second step is underway if what you did at point number one went well and he did not storm out of the place you are, considering that you are a lunatic. So, the second act: talk to him. If he looks backs at you, at the change of glances, act naturally and go to him and ask him if he is somebody you know or something similar. Or, you can ask him for a simple advice, something that is not weird and out of the ordinary. Make sure to ask something that will require an answer from him and make him talk. Conversation is key and, if this goes well, then you are on the right path with Mister Probably Right. Continue talking to him, and, at a certain point, ask him his name and tell him yours. From there, you can continue by asking him subtly things about him, and offer some little pieces of information about you, as well, so you can discover the points that you two have in common. During this stage, you will need to manipulate the body language. A good way to show that you like him is to mimic his actions, but do not overdo it, as it will seem very weird. Do not be shy about more serious questions if things go well. You need to know and rather fast, whether he is married or he has a girlfriend. This is a crucial point when you find out if you need to concentrate on this one. Single? Perfect! Now it is time to touch him lightly and for brief moments. This body contact will make him more confident, and, if he is interested in you, as well, he will touch you back. The best strategy tells you now that it is the right moment to take your leave. Men are hunters in their nature and they do not like an easy prey. So, you must invent something, that you are waited home, or that you need to catch the bus, and leave him there, wanting for more. Remember to leave him a contact detail, like a phone number, or an e-mail address, but, after that, off you go! This will be a signal for him that he has the next move, and, if he does not do it, you will find another guy, or another guy will find you. These are the basic rules of seduction: try them and you may hit your emotional jackpot! About The Author: Freeda is a writer and publisher of Article Click. For more FREE articles for your ezine and websites visit - www.articleclick.com |
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