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Posted on October 21, 2009 by Steven Brompton | Posted under Relationships
How To Get Your Man Back When You've Done Bad
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Now Traci is contrite and she wants to get guy back. He wants nothing further to do with Traci. What's a girl to do? First of all, Traci wants to apologize. This needs to be a sincere apology. If he doesn't wish to listen to her, she should email a note. There are 3 elements to a genuine apology. Then, there is an introspection as to the reasons why she probably did it. as an example, Traci needs to say "Brian, I was wrong to accuse you of flirting with Sandy. I was feeling scared for a number of reasons that had zip to do with you and I snapped. In the future, I'll be careful not to shout at you when i'm feeling crummy about myself." Next, she needs to relax and allow Brian to process what she is's claimed. She should also avoid having chums intercede for her. Instead, Traci should wait for Brian to contact her. He will, eventually, if only to get his stuff that she has back. This is Traci's opportunity to strike. She should keep things light. She shouldn't go overboard and tell him how much she is's missed him or how sorry she's about the situation. Instead, she should bring up some of the positive experiences they've shared. If that goes over well, she'll talk about the little things that she's's missed like his smile or the way he always holds the umbrella when it rains. Then, she should suggest they meet for a not-date date such as a short get together at a coffee shop. At that point, she can say that she misses having him in her life and want to get together. Traci has let Brian blow off any steam he had about the situation. She has also given him both time and reasons to want her back. At that point, she doesn't have to do much work to get guy back. . About The Author: Toby Hardwick gives relationship advice at Relationship DIY |
Tags: RELATIONSHIPS, BREAK UP
