How To Last Longer In Bed – 5 Great Tips


The Question of “How can I last longer in bed?” is asked by many men. Yet unfortunately most men don’t realize that they have the ability within themselves to change this behavior. Here are 5 useful tips to help prevent premature ejaculation and to get you lasting longer in bed.

1. Tune in... to everything

Instead of trying to distract your mind by thinking about baseball or reciting your 23 times tables, what you really should be doing during intercourse is tuning in, not out. Although it’s likely that you have heard this piece of advice in the past, the true reason why tuning in can work is very rarely explained and understood. You see, by “tuning in”, you need to tune into everything, not just the sensations occurring in your genital region. You should tune into every sensation you are experiencing. Tune into the touch of your partner and the feeling of her skin, tune into the sounds she is making, tune into the feeling of her body. I mean everything. This will actually have the effect of stopping you from solely focusing on your pelvic and genital region and if done correctly will go a long way to helping you learn how to last longer in bed.

2. Get your breathing right

It’s natural to breathe deeply during sex, but guess what? This is something that 99% of men who suffer from premature ejaculation fail to do. By learning to breathe in a more relaxed way both before and during intercourse you will be able to make a noticeable improvement to your lasting time.

3. Make sure to pace yourself

For most men who have trouble lasting in bed, the real danger time is during the first one or two minutes of intercourse. After this time the probability of being able to last longer will actually increase. That’s why it’s so important to go easy at the start. Extend foreplay, make sure that you are comfortable and relaxed before you start, and once you begin intercourse take it easy at first to give yourself a fighting chance to get used to the sensation.

4. Make sure you are not tensing your pelvic muscles

Many men who experience premature ejaculation, will find that they are either consciously or unconsciously tensing their pelvic muscles during intercourse. To last longer in bed this is something that you must try to stop. This leads us to one of the real secret of lasting longer in bed. A secret that many experts regularly fail understand. It’s a fact that it is physically impossible for you to ejaculate while your pelvic and ejaculatory muscles are in a relaxed and controlled state. So the key is to become aware of the state of these muscles and start learning some techniques and exercises that will give you the ability to actually control the state of these muscles.

5. Don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself.

And lastly, this point is very important. Don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself. The absolute worst thing you can do during sex is to start thinking about what will happen if you fail to last long enough. Just relax, give the other tips I have showed you a go and enjoy the moment. If you do happen to ejaculate early, remember, it’s not the end of the world. There are lots other steps you can take to last longer, and be sure that with just a little dedication and practice, and the right information you will be lasting longer in bed in no time at all.
These are just a few of the many ways in which you can learn to last longer in bed. I hope you find the time to give them a go, I’m sure they will be helpful.

To learn more about these techniques as well as many others you can view a great guide for showing men How to last longer in bed called Beating Premature Ejaculation.


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