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Posted on August 19, 2008 by Balva Rudick | Posted under   Dating


How to Get a Guy



Over time the dynamics between men and women have changed according to societys standards and how the world has changed and evolved. There is one thing that really hasnt changed over time however, and that is women pondering the dilemma of how to get a guy. Though for some lucky women this is a problem that doesnt come up often because they have more calls for dates than they can handle every week, for the average woman it is an ongoing question.

Is there really any pat answer to the question of how to get a guy? If there was, that would mean that every man was exactly the same. Despite the fact that women often, in exasperation, think that men are all alike, we know that it is not really true. Men can be as diverse and complicated as women well, almost and therefore what may attract one man may not necessarily attract another. When considering how to get a guy, the best thing to do is think in general terms, and focus less on attracting members of the opposite sex than on becoming a more attractive person overall.

When talking about becoming a more attractive person, that doesnt necessarily mean to become prettier or dramatically improve your body. Although care of your outer appearance and trying to look the best you can be is important because it shows that you care about yourself, it is not the only thing that matters as far as being attractive. How a woman carries herself, her demeanor and how at ease she seems with herself is a very big part of how attractive she is, and an important factor to consider when figuring out how to get a guy. Though it is an old adage that you get more calls for dates if you act like you dont care, it really is true. That doesnt mean that you should act aloof or indifferent to every man that you meet. What it does mean is that you need to look and act as if you are content with your life the way it is, and are not desperate to find a man to make you happy. Desperation in a woman is probably the most unattractive feature she can portray, and it is generally unattractive to all types of men. Though it may seem strange, the women who know best how to get a guy are the women who seem to care least about it.



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