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Posted on April 1, 2006 by Alphonso Sirtle... | Posted under   Sexuality


Losing Your Virginity - What A Girl Should Know About Her First Time

There are many things a girl should know before deciding to lose her virginity. Many young girls become curious about the subject because they talked about it with other friends that had that experience and having the proper knowledge about the event means starting on the right foot in sex life. First comes the decision itself. No girl should decide to lose her virginity to any kind of pressure. Instead, she must concentrate on making the event memorable and enjoyable. Girls that masturbates know what the orgasm is. This is caused by stimulation of the clitoris, but having sex takes things a little further. A little knowledge about the anatomy of the female body is a must. The vulva is covered by the larger outer lips and by the inner lips. Inside, close to the exit, is the hymen, that, on the first sexual contact, will be torn and some bleeding occurs. A girl should be prepared by knowing these things, too.

Besides preventing any pressure being held on her, the girl deciding to lose her virginity must stay away from alcohol, as this can make her act against her own feelings. Even if it is the first sexual contact, protection is a must, so the girl must ask her partner to wear a condom. This way, she will be protected against diseases and conception.

Any intercourse should start with foreplay. So it is important the two partners do not rush into things, especially as it is the girl's first time. Kissing, petting and so on must take a while, so the girl's vulva can get wet. Moisturized enough it will permit the intercourse to happen with less pain. If the two partners decide, oral sex before intercourse can be of great help.

Now about the best position for losing the virginity. Despite what many say, the missionary position is not at all advisable. The girl's body is crushed under her partner's and she will not be able to do anything if it hurts too much. Instead, the girl should take the lead and place herself on top of the boy. She will be able to let the penis enter her slowly and this way she will have control and stop when she decides. Some vaginal lubricant can be used if it seems to be too painful.

After the hymen is torn, the sex can begin. First, the penis must enter all in the girl's vagina. This must be done slowly, so the body can accommodate the novelty. After everything settles, the girl's partner can begin thrusting. The girl must ask for the best position so she can feel her clitoris and her G spot stimulated. A good position can be achieved with the boy on top, but suspended on his arms, without crushing the girl with his weight.

By following these simple rules, the girl can remain with good and pleasant memories about the first time.



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