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Posted on November 22, 2008 by Pearle Tsuji | Posted under Relationships
Love Someone: The Rules Of Tenderness
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A person cannot love another if they do not have willingness to do good, perseverance to conquer problems, patience to understand the other and a lot of love to give. The first rule of love is to get to know the person next to you to their deepest secrets. You can offer attention and care, but do not suffocate them. When the moment is right, throw in some compliments, but when they are well deserved. You will make your loved one feel very good. Be a lady or a gentleman, which is the case, by acting polite. Politeness means all the simple rules you learnt from home. Apply them always and you will have a good relationship. Even if the person you live with does not ask for help, it is always nice to offer this help. They will appreciate it, you will help them and you will feel useful, which is a very pleasant feeling that humans can experience. While you are talking to the one you love, spend time to look them in their eyes, to give them feedback and offer them advice, when necessary, or answers, or simply be a good companion. This means that you should not watch TV or read the newspaper, while you talk to them, or this will show that you do not care that much for them. You will be a pleasant companion if you smile more often. If you do not believe in the power of a smile, just watch old people around you. You will see that the happy ones always have wrinkles telling how much they laughed in their lives. Do not live your life wearing a mask. Smile to the person you love, be positive and make the best off your personal experience. This will make you a person that deserves to be loved, in return, as well. It takes a lot of patience to work on a relationship. Nothing durable happens in a day. Even if what you do today does not translate into the desired effect from your loved one, you should try still, as this is a long practice. The fruits of your patience will be as sweet as heaven and you will not regret having to wait for your loved one. These are just simple guidelines. According to your own experiences and relationship, you can do a lot more, but you will just have to pay attention. We wish you a lot of good luck in your romantic life. About The Author: Visit www.articleclick.com for additional article contributions by Pearle Tsuji. |
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