Relationship Tips - 3 Qualities That a Woman Needs From a Man

Do you remember how many times you've stared at a girl you're dating and wondered what exactly is going on inside her head? You're not alone. A lot of men ask the same question daily, "what do women want to know?", but like you, they are nowhere near figuring out the answer.

A woman's mysterious behavior is largely due to the fact that she wants to ask you deep relationship-related questions but she's too embarrassed to ask directly. You see, as early as the first date, women want to develop a relationship with you, and she wants to know if you have it in you to be her boyfriend.

To clarify things, let me reveal what women want to know when they're on a date with a guy, and how they use confounding behavior to get the answers they want.

1. "Are you involved with someone else?"

Telling her you're single won't stop her from asking this question inside her head. She will continue to listen carefully to your stories; trying to figure out if you have someone you're currently interested in. She might start by asking about your past relationships and encourage you to talk about your former lovers.

Take my advice and just skip the deep discussion about YOUR love life for now. You might give her the wrong answer by talking about your past relationships and what those girls 'meant' to you. However, you can take this opportunity to prod her into telling you about what she wants in a boyfriend, to give you a better idea of how she handles her relationships.

2. "Are you a player?"

Although she won't ask you directly, you will probably realize she's asking this question based on the jibes she sends your way about your 'lifestyle' as a player. If you flatter her too much, she might retort 'I bet you say that to every girl you go out with'. This is a dangerous topic, so tread lightly. Don't make the mistake of being defensive. Instead, turn things around by laughing it off and changing the subject as smoothly as soon as you can.

3. "Are you a loser?"

When the conversation topic shifts to 'future plans' and 'goals in life', make sure you mention family and career more than twice when you're talking about the things you want to have in the next ten years. Most men don't realize that women get emotionally drawn to men with 'strength of conviction' and sense of priority, rather than men with a laissez-faire approach to life.

I know you're probably on a date with her because you successfully made her feel like you're fun to be with, but if you really want to take things to the next level (being her boyfriend), you have to be mindful of the personality you show her on your first date.