Relationship Tips - How to Start a Conversation With a Beautiful Woman

Well, just start a conversation AS IF she's just a friend of yours.

Imagine the following. What if you were able to just start talking to people (men and women) and along the way you met a woman who's interesting and you felt like she's interested in you too. You didn't try to impress her or tell her crazy stories to try and gain her approval. You were just being you, and she liked you just for who you are. You engaged her in conversation to find out more about her and to see if she met your criteria for taking the relationship further. You didn't do that to "qualify the girl to demonstrate higher value". Instead, you did it because you know what you truly want and will accept no less. Does that sound good?

Well, it's easy to do. Start talking to "strangers" all the time. People are friendly. Talk to men and women, and stretch your social muscle a bit. At first, it may mean just saying hi to people. It could then evolve to making a comment about something cool they're wearing and asking them where they got it, asking them for advice in a store, or asking them any question you're genuinely curious about finding out. Shopping malls are great to practice this because you can ask attractive saleswomen questions and they'll talk to you (they're paid to do so!). It just makes you more socially aware and builds your social confidence. If you're friendly and are genuinely interested in getting answers to the questions you ask, you should never have a bad experience. The worst experience I've gotten is people were busy and walked away. Big deal! They missed the opportunity to connect with a cool, sexy man like me - it's their loss, not mine.

You're probably thinking, being friendly and social is good but I want to talk to my perfect woman! Well, it's no different. Remember the ideal scenario we depicted just a minute ago? Starting a casual conversation with a beautiful woman is the best way to build attraction, rapport, trust, comfort, and a connection! Why? Because you fly under the radar. You're not trying to get something from her (like her number) or giving her outright compliments about something superficial like her appearance. That way, you're getting a chance to find out more about her, deeper things about her (like a unique quality or personality trait), that you can later appreciate and tell her so.

This probably sounds good so far but how about the fact that she's so beautiful and you may be kind of afraid to go talk to her? You have to think she's just a friend. That she's friendly and want to meet you (if she doesn't, she was unfriendly and you wouldn't want to be with her anyways, right?). Ever been friends with a beautiful woman? Maybe she was a coworker. Or maybe you got introduced to one at a party and talked for a while? Maybe it was uncomfortable at first but after breaking the ice, you were totally comfortable talking to her. Think about what happened during that moment and how great you felt and how you behaved just perfectly. Close your eyes and imagine yourself being there again. Remember all the details about it. What do you see? What do you hear? What do you feel? How do you feel? Let your body be in that position again (stand up if you were standing when you were talking to her; or sit if you were talking to her when you met her, maybe at a dinner party). Close your eyes and let your mind take you to that successful encounter. Now magnify all the things you were feeling, seeing, hearing, smelling, touching. Make all these elements bigger and more important. It was a positive experience for you so we want to make all these elements that were surrounding you and inside of you more powerful.

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. we want to amplify them. Also pay attention to your behavior during that moment:

- Were you speaking slowly or fast (likely slowly if you were exuding confidence)? Hear yourself talk at that moment.

- Was your voice deep or high pitch (likely deeper than usual)?

- How was your body language? Were you acting relaxed and completely at ease? Were you leaning back to show aloofness and dominance or were you leaning in to show interest in her as she was showing interest in you leaning in as well (there's no right or wrong way in the last, it just depends on the circumstance and what you want to convey)?

Again, it's important for your subconscious that you close your eyes and replay this experience in your mind. And as you're replaying this movie in your head, magnify the most positive elements to strengthen their power. Make the image bright and full of passion.