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Posted on October 29, 2009 by Dean Esquire | Posted under Relationships
Sure Fire way of getting over an ex in 5 days Flat
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STOP IT!!! MAN UP!! Being depressed over a recent breakup can be a confidence destroyer, if you let it. As you have been skipping down the yellow brick road you've probably found out along the way that life isn't fair. Good things tend to happen to bad people and vice versa, again that's life, deal with it. The true test of a man's character is not how he deals with his successes, but how he bounces back from life's adversity. If you are looking for ways to get her back or to get back at her, LEAVE NOW!! This is only for those willing to make a change and who aren't afraid to take a chance on something different. Below, I am going to show you how to get over your ex in Exactly 5 days. ( Results aren't 100%, but damn near) DAy 1: Pour out a little Liquor!! In order to treat the situation correctly and effectively you have to DEAL with the situation at hand. And the situation is that your prized possession (Your ex-chick) is gone... So have a pity party for yourself, sulk in your favorite shirt, look at pictures of you and her together all hugged up like two drunk koala bears. Talk to yourself, walk around the house and yell at the walls, act as if your ex was in the room and she gave you the RARE opportunity to voice your feelings for the very last time. Today is the last day that you will ever see her again, today is the last day you will ever talk to her, THIS IS IT, so get what ever girlie emotions you have out now or forever hold your peace. DAY 2: Watch Casper the Friendly Ghost! This is the most important step. Go and download ANY episode of Casper the Friendly Ghost because this is who you are NOW going to be. You are now going to be a ghost in her life. No phone calls, no emails, no driving by her house, no contact what so ever. The reason why you want to be ghost is two-fold. For one, it gives you power because it will show her that you don't need her and that you have moved on even if you haven't. Secondly, depending on how you two broke, space and time usually heals all wounds, especially for women. And if you treated her right throughout your relationship and she was the main reason why it didn't work, 9 times out of 10 she will be hunting you down in due time when her next situation crumbles, TRUST ME!! Day 3: Take out the Garbage Remember those nasty pics you took of her that last day in June or maybe that6 minute video of your girl blowing your trumpet, DELETE THEM!! Remember those pictures of that cruise you took to Jamaica, BURN DEM!! Any and everything that you can think of that will remind you of her, toss them out, it's a new era, fade her ass to the black. This my friend will give you the ultimate closure, there is no turning back, no reminders of the past. DAy 4: Change your Underwear Today is a day of change, it's time to give yourself a complete makeover. First, you will want to get a new email address or if that is too difficult block and delete her contacts. All too often, if you have communicated with an ex via email, out of weakness you may decide to email her or you might become delusional and unfocused and check your email every 10 minutes hoping she emails you, begging you back into her hairy arms. Next, change your cell and home numbers, knowing that she has no way of getting in contact with you is the best healing medicine you can take plus it eliminate all hope from your heart that she will eventually call you. Changing your address is not necessary, there is a very low percentage that you will have to worry about her knocking on your door late at night for a reconciliation, so taking drastic measures as such is unneeded. Day 5: Do YOU!! List 5 things that you need to improve about yourself. It can be to lose 15 pounds or to make an additional $5,000 for a better automobile. You need to list specific goals and specific ways to attain those goals. You want to learn and grow from every experience, good and bad. So change your cup to half full rather than half empty. Get the wind behind your back and the ground beneath your feet and move something player!! Focus on making yourself someone that every woman would die to have, do it for YOU and not for the fallacy that your ex will find out how much your Swag level has increased and come running back to you. These steps will not only just help you get over your ex, but it will help you focus on the most important person in your life, YOU!! Improving you, helping you become a better person, lover, man, father is what you are trying to accomplish. There will always be one constant in every relationship, YOU! You will not and cannot control another woman's actions, a woman for the most part is only going to do what's best for her at whatever point she's at in her life. So with that being said, women are all programmed differently, they all react differently to any type of stress and stimuli. Some want what they can not have, some are never satisfied with anything, good or bad. On the other hand, you do have that rare breed of women that will cherish and appreciate a good man with character, ambition, etc. and that my friend is where you need to be. Seek to become BETTER and not BITTER. You need to be prepared for when that special opportunity arises that your preparation has you ready and On-point. -Esquire About The Author: Read more about Dean Esquire's advice on dating a taurus woman, and the best dating tips for guys. |
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