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By: Giovanna Gory
Tantric sex is something many people have heard of without knowing exactly what it is. Actually, it is all about a massage designed by ancient Hindus to achieve sexual happiness and relaxation. As strange as it may sound, the role of the Tantric massage is not to cause orgasm, but to achieve personal growth while leading a pleasurable existence. To make things clear, Tantra massage does not involve intercourse, but the touching and caressing the genital parts is involved, so this is the reason why the massage is not performed just anywhere, but only in selective massage parlors in large cities, like London. If you want to experience the pleasures of the Tantric massage, you can learn a few things from this guide. There is a certain terminology you must be used to so the explanations can be easier for you. The male genitalia is called Lingam - which stands for wand of light - , while the female parts are called Yoni - in translation, sacred space. When you visit a parlor offering Tantric massage, you are allowed to keep some clothes on, if you are not comfortable with being nude. But, at home, experimenting with your partner, all clothes off is the best option to enjoy fully the massage. Now, you must not think of it a regular massage. So just position your lover with a pillow under their heads and one under their hips so they can visualize their sex organs. You can use a lubricant, but choose one that is functional. Start with the massage of the whole body, then concentrate more on the genitals. The massage of the Yoni involves the massaging of the outer lips with enough oil to make the movements pleasant. Caress and apply a comfortable pleasure while looking your lover in the eye. After massaging the outer lips, touch gently and apply the same movements to the inner lips. After relaxing your partner, go for the price: the clitoris. This is very sensitive, so stimulate gently by rubbing it in circles and by squeezing it slowly between your fingers. Breathing is very important to enjoy the orgasm, so encourage your lady to breathe deeply. Let the tension build up to increase the pleasure and then insert the middle finger of the right hand inside while continuing the massage. Feel the insides of your lady and touch the G spot. Here the massage will take you both to the next step. Little circles applied here will draw your lover closer and closer to orgasm. You can put one extra finger inside to apply more pressure. Do not forget to stimulate the clitoris with your thumb. You can choose to stimulate the anus, but it is better to have this issue already discussed with your lover. Drive your lady to orgasm while stroking her body with your other hand. She will relax and then she will fall asleep. The massage of the Lingam can be as intense and rewarding as the massage of the Yoni. The woman takes charge now. The position the man must assume is the one described in the beginning of the article. In order to expose the Lingam, the man must spread his legs with the knees bent for a more relaxing position. The massage starts with caresses and touches of the whole body. Then, the woman can concentrate on the Lingam. With the hand oiled properly, the woman must caress and massage the testicles. The movement should move above the Lingam, on the pelvic bone, then back on the testicles. The area between the testicles and the perineum demands special attention. After that, the Lingam is the main concern. By alternating hands, the woman must grasp the Lingam and apply massage from base to tip and then the other way around. The head must be caressed with circular movements. Breathing is also important so the woman must encourage the man to breathe deep. The man will feel he is on the brink of orgasm and it is the womans role to keep him from bursting. Controlling ejaculation will soon prove to be the key to achieve a sexual pleasure beyond what he ever felt. You can help your man by pressing the sacred spot between testicles and anus. This will halt ejaculation, adding to the pleasure and the duration of the next one. In the end, you will succeed to make your man have the orgasm of his life. If you managed to make him fall asleep, then you must practice some more. But you must keep in mind what wonderful pleasure can the Tantric massage provide you with.
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