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Posted on August 10, 2008 by Kelly Renaul | Posted under Relationships
Top 3 Ways to enjoy Bondage
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Bondage and discipline means getting tied up during sex. For some, bondage is about simply enjoying sexual pleasure rather than having to worry about reciprocation. For others, it is a way to give permission for secret desires. Whether you have tried Bondage or not, below are some guidelines to help make an extreme fetish more enjoyable, including: 1. No means no. Respect boundaries. If you are inexperienced about being bound or tying someone up, start off slow. Do not jump into poodle balling and skunking right away. Talk. Communicate. Agree to a set of guidelines and limits. Upon request, agree absolutely that the tied down party will be released. In the spirit of constraints, many bondage enthusiasts agree ahead of time on a pre established safe word. In order to enjoy the pleasures of screaming, this is a word or phrase that all parties understand that it means to stop immediately. For beginners, consider starting with just ankles tied up in a different position so you still have your hands free to release yourself. If you do not trust that your playmate will honor these limits, do not get tied up by him or her. If being tied up doesnt appeal to you, or raises bad issues for you, do not do it. 2. Bondage does not equal pain. Despite its stigma for physical abuse, bondage is not supposed to be painful. Any position that is uncomfortable at the start of being tied up will become agonizing within moments. Please ensure that whatever your body is telling you about your limits are instantly respected. Neither party should be trying for cool points here. If it doesnt feel good, do not do it. 3. Know thy own equipment. Before you get started, test your equipment for safety. Frustrations will rise if you tie up a partner and find out afterwards that the drywall can not support a sling - not exactly a moment of glory. Try explaining that to your landlord. Safety may not conjure up sexy thoughts but it pays off to protect your partner and yourself. Prior to the act, confirm that everything is anchored firmly; in the heat of the moment, people can really yank on restraints and it is not over until you say it is over. Use these tips to enjoy bondage as a way to spice up your sex life! About The Author: To know more about bondagesex please visit our website. |
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