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Posted on October 11, 2009 by Timothy Spencer | Posted under   Relationships


Wedding Proposal Tips: How to Win Her “Yes”



It’s time to pop the question and the first advice soldier is thatyou must come prepared. This preparation is both mental and physical;mentally you must expect that in reality there is more than one answerto the question “Will You Marry Me?”

Once that comes to mind try to keep heed of the following food for thought:

Testing the waters.

Don’truin the surprise, but do have small talks about what kind of futureshe wants to have. Avoid using the common female primer “we have totalk”, keep it casual as to avoid giving off signals that may ruin themoment. Ask about careers, children housing, transportation, health,and probably recreation activities. Actually if have been able tomaintain a healthy relationship with lady for quite some time, then youshould have known the answer to most of these questions by now. If not,recall. If not possible, it time to turn on the charm and reinvestigate.

Incases wherein your girl is of a different culture, you should also tryto learn if she obeys a different pattern of tradition and customs thatmight play an impact in your attempt at a nuptial. In some cultures, itwould be decent to actually talk to her parents or even grandparentsbefore popping the question. Other beliefs may also entail taking careof the parents at old age – which could mean deeper pockets in the longrun.

Location, location, location.

Sounding abit like real estate? Don’t worry, I’m not alluding to the possibilitythat she may be as expensive as real estate… but if she does give offthat tendency then think about act of proposal act to get a very highappraisal rate. Choose the perfect spot for your proposal. Think of aplace that has a common memory you share.

Maybe the firstplace you first met, had your first kiss or maybe where you will buildyour first house together. At the end of our time the only thing wewill have to hold on to would be the good and great memories we havehad the fortune of having, so make this one count.

Avoid publicplaces, specially sporting events specially karaoke bars. Unless youhave tested the waters properly and she is inclined to give a bigresounding yes, then avoid this kind of pressure. It will bear heavy onyou, on her and possibly to the friends you planted in the audience.

Play like James Bond.

No,no, no not the exotic cars, the lovely British accent or gunplay.Although the good looks would not be a bad idea, but let’s face only afew are blessed. So let’s get down to business of being an agent on amission. Prepare yourself for intangibles but arm yourself with someinformation briefs and some practice.

Know what to say, if youare not a skilled orator then write down what you want to say andpractice it. Believe that this is not a moment for garbling words orgiving double meanings. If you cannot memorize it, then read it to her.It does not hurt.

Know the location. You may have already pickedthe place, but have a specific idea where exactly you must sit, standand eventually drop down on one knee for her. In graduating from thiscourtship you will also need to reminder of your good history togetherand what you think makes you click, then move in for the final chargeby being direct, succinct and actually very simple.

That’s itfor that. These general rules when applied properly should provide youwith the answer you so direly desire let the reminder be in summingthis all up be “set it up before you rack ‘em up.” Cheers and good luck!



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