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Posted on August 13, 2008 by David DeAngelo | Posted under Dating
Why Intelligent Men Fail With Women - Part 5
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News just in: Women don't feel attraction for men who make them think. Women feel attraction for men who make them feel. So what do most smart guys do when they first meet a woman? Exactly! They get into a logical conversation. I'm shaking my head right now... Smart men try to engage women in logical conversations and interactions because that's where they feel comfortable... not knowing that they're shooting themselves in the foot by doing it! Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make a woman feel attraction for you by engaging her in logical conversation. When you start a logical conversation with a woman you've just met, you are basically taking out a neon sign that says, "I don't get it when it comes to women" and putting it on your head. Typical "logical" conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs... discussing politics, religion, weather... and anything that has to do with math, science, or intelligence. On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say, "OK, so tell me something... Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date sexy, selfish, bad boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives) Now you're having an emotional conversation. If you don't know what I'm talking about, keep reading. You need more help than I thought. REASON #7: THEY'RE NOT USED TO THE CHALLENGE OF THE MOMENT Smart people usually have time to think about things. If you're taking a test, you can sit there and work out the answers. If you have a math problem, you can work on it until you've figured it out. If you're trying to fix something, you can keep working on it until it's fixed. Smart guys are used to being able to take at least a little bit of time to prepare and show off their "good sides" in most situations. Not so with women... If you don't know what to do at every step along the way, you'll be shut down very quickly. Women have an amazing "He doesn't get it" radar system. Women have all kinds of subtle and ingenious tests that they throw at men to separate the "get its" from the "don't get its". And if you don't get it, then you're going to fail one of these tests very quickly. But the worst part is that you won't ever know that you were being tested... or that you failed. Smart guys aren't used to dealing with complex emotional and communication challenges in the moment... and especially the "women and dating" kind. One of they keys to becoming more successful with women and dating is learning to handle all of the tests that women throw at you effortlessly. But before you can learn how to deal with the tests, you must first learn how to communicate on an emotional level, how to demonstrate that you have fundamental social skills, and how to keep your cool in the moment. About The Author: Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Getting Women. David DeAngelo will show you the secrets that most men will never know about women. Improve your dating with David's dating tips and dating advice. |
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