Posted on November 22, 2009Is It Possible To Save My Marriage?
What is the problem in your marriage? In order to save your marriage you need to get to the root of the problem. It could be the problem of finances, infidelity, not focusing on your partner, the list could go on and on. In my opinion, the lack of...
Marriage Help Articles
Posted on November 20, 2009I Need Sexless Marriage Help – 3 Steps To Get Your Partner To Want You Again
Living in a marriage without sex can be stressful. Feelings of anger, frustration and even resentment all come to the fore. If you are in this situation then you certainly are not alone. Latest statistics show that as many as 18% of couples make love...
Posted on October 29, 2009Women Who Wish Their Spouses Would Die
Do you secretly hope your spouse will die? Do you feel awful for feeling this way? You are not alone! Discover the way out of the trap you are in, perhaps your marriage can be saved.
Posted on January 29, 20093 Reasons to Avoid Marriage Counseling
People are starting to become more aware of the pitfalls and dangers of marriage counseling. I personally cannot think of a more misleading group of so-called professionals. Just the other day I met an individual who told me the marriage counselor...
Posted on January 29, 2009Maintaining Healthy Relationships - 3 Ways
Most people, not only you, are insecure about their relationships. It's not just marital or significant other relationships that can be difficult. Maintaining healthy relationships is universally a problematic experience. Those who deny it are...
Posted on January 29, 2009Relationship Rescue
It is easy for most people to understand why they need training in order to be safe. I hope you see where I'm going with this.I'm not much of a boater but occasionally I like to go for a ride so I'll rent a boat to take out on the lake. My boating...
Posted on January 29, 2009Causes of Divorce
When I began my research into what I needed to know in order to help people have a happy marriage one of the first things I looked for were the actions that lead to unhappiness. Still my simple idea was, and still remains, if you are doing everything...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Is For a Lifetime
As far as I know nobody has asked to change the vows one makes at the altar to something other than "until death do you part" The idea of marriage being a permanent relationship that lasts a lifetime is tremendously important. The children who come...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Counseling Won't Work - If You Never See Him or Her Anymore
Where do you live? Do you live in a city, an apartment, a house or the country? Or do you live in a family? Or maybe where you really live is within yourself. Think about it. You are constantly surrounded, physically by your physical...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Counseling Won't Work - If Your Family Told You They Didn't Like Your Spouse
I have no idea how many age old dilemmas exist, but I'm sure there's a mountain of them. One of those ugly dilemmas is when you are married to someone your family says they don't like. Honestly, my heart goes out to you, because if you let it, you...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Counseling Won't Help If You Try To Change Your Spouse
Here is a letter I received from someone who read one of my blogs: Dear Paul, It is true that one ought not to adopt the role of a teacher...that would not be appropriate in a relationship...one wants to love and be loved"¦ However, I am not...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Counseling Will Be a Waste of Your Time If He Is Cheating With Your Best Friend!
"¦Most men are not natural Casanovas. Introducing themselves to a woman is very painful and scary for most men. So when they have close relationships with other attractive women who are either single or married, the temptation to venture is...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Counseling Doesn't Work - You Aren't Crazy or a Loser
Anyone can tell you with great authority a marriage is not a washing machine. It does not take a genius to make such an obvious statement. But understanding marriage is not like trying to find the keys to universal questions either. With what we...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Counseling Doesn't Work - I Don't Trust Him or Her and 2 Simple Answers
Have you ever lied? Have you ever stretched the truth? Have you ever exaggerated a story? Have you ever said something that wasn't exactly accurate but was kind of close to accurate? Do you know anyone who is 100% pure? I don't. The truth of...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Counseling; Does It work? - 5 Questions You Should Ask
If you talk to any couple who has been married over 20 years and gets along, the chances are they never went to see a marriage counselor. On the other hand if you talk to a couple that had just gotten a divorce chances are very good they had tried...
Posted on January 29, 2009Intimate Questions to Ask Your Lover - For Women
A quick review of divorce statistics screams at us. We are doing something wrong as a society in terms of teaching ourselves how we choose our partners. The criteria we use for getting married does not work. Our schools put the emphasis on how to do...
Posted on January 29, 2009Intimate Questions to Ask"¦ Your Husband
By the time most people have been married a few years they have allowed the spark of intimate passion to recede almost to the point of nonexistence. Is that what you signed up for? When people initially meet someone they think will be suitable as a...
Posted on January 29, 20095 Intimate Questions To Ask In Your Marriage - For Women
We don't ask enough questions of ourselves. Although it is true ladies like to 'challenge' themselves, which is different than asking questions, it doesn't help to change behavior. It is not unusual for a lady to say something like, "Now why did I...
Posted on January 29, 2009Divorce Questions You Should Be Asking
When people are having difficulties with their marriage the first thing they want to do is find out about a divorce. They want to know what to expect in terms of costs, how long it takes, and what the laws are that govern a divorce. Everybody wants...
Posted on January 29, 20096 Divorce Questions
Questions about divorce usually begin with people asking their friends who have already gone through the divorce process. They are generally subtle so the person being asked doesn't really know that the one asking is contemplating a divorce.They ask...
Posted on January 29, 2009Divorce and Adultery - 3 Solutions
Very few people actually get a divorce because of adultery. Of course it's difficult to track the statistics since the advent of uncontested divorce. Anyone involved in the divorce system will tell you that adultery is something most people get...
Posted on January 29, 2009Relationship Advice for Newlyweds Part Two
The first thing you need to do is not do anything dumb (any more). Fights are no longer acceptable forms of communication.The love you feel for each other is just the beginning.It gets better every day,And here is how! Forget those people who tell...
Posted on January 29, 2009Am I Ready to Get Married Quiz - 9 Questions
Compatibility is very important. So I have come up with the ultimate Am I Ready to Get Married Quiz.When we find who we think might be the right one for marriage, we are never sure (unless we are sure) if our choice is correct. We bring them to our...
Posted on January 29, 2009Relationship Counseling - 6 Questions to ask
From my point of view it is rather unfortunate that psychologists are viewed by most people as being at the same educational and intelligence level as a doctor of medicine.
Posted on January 29, 20094 Steps For a Good Relationship
By following the four steps outlined above you almost certainly have a fulfilling and loving relationship - it almost can't be helped.
Posted on January 29, 2009Love Over Trust in Relationships
When we enter into a marriage it isn't our job to criticize our partner for their weaknesses. It is our job to support them through their difficult times.
Posted on January 29, 2009Love Advice for Your Relationship
When we have established the relationship of a marriage or our intention to be married we agree to open our hearts so love can flow through without restrictions
Posted on January 29, 2009Jealousy and Insecurity in Relationships
Never think of jealousy as part of yourself or anyone else. Jealousy, like other unwelcome intruders, can be pushed out by the owner of the mind.
Posted on January 29, 2009How to Save a Marriage
...it is normal to have a happy marriage as long as you're following what I would call the physics of marriage. There are natural laws for everything.
Posted on January 29, 2009Dream Marriage - A How To
Our environment prods us towards happiness, sadness, boredom or excitement, but it is not outer conditions alone that are responsible for our feelings.
Posted on January 29, 2009Divorce Advice for Women
My belief is divorce has become acceptable because mainstream therapists simply don't know how to help a married couple remain together.
Posted on January 29, 2009How the Auto Industry Bailout Affects Marriages
But instead of getting right to the heart of the problem the government is dealing with a result of the problem, an ailing industry... Like an ailing marriage.
Posted on January 29, 2009Premarital Counseling
Young adults who are anticipating getting married are not stupid. They have seen the previous generation go through divorce after divorce and so they know firsthand of the disastrous effects divorce has on children, unspoken of or not.
Posted on January 29, 2009Divorce Advice
Some people asked me if the process I developed to help people have a very happy marriage will work for everyone. What a loaded question! That's like asking if the manual you got with your computer will work for everyone.
Posted on January 29, 20092 Ways to Improve a Relationship
When I was 25 years old I moved out into the country in Connecticut and built my own house on 55 acres of land. For the times, it was 1976, the house I built was outrageous. It was passive solar with a wood burning furnace as the backup. There...
Posted on January 29, 2009The Effects Of Divorce On Children Part 1
There are very few tragedies that impact a child more than the splitting of his or her parents. The foundation for a child is their parents; both of them. Going through a divorce creates a tragedy for the child. The effects of the court system...
Posted on January 29, 2009Marriage Compatibility Test
Brace yourself. I'm about to yell at you! Why do you want to take a marriage compatibility test? Don't you have enough problems without looking for areas of incompatibility?...
Posted on January 29, 2009Relationship Advice for Those Who Are Breaking Up
Most often a relationship can be saved even when there is infidelity. But it is more difficult to save marriages that are falling apart when the wife has become involved with another man then the other way around.
Posted on January 29, 2009Relationship Advice for Newlyweds Part One
If you're wondering what you just did by getting married to this almost total stranger you are, unfortunately, not alone. Way too many people jump the gun and get married without really getting to know the person they are marrying. On the other hand...
Posted on January 29, 2009The Most Common Mistakes Women Make When They Pick Their Future Spouse and The Right Way to Do It
If the divorce rate tells us anything it is that women have not chosen their life mate well.I have listed the three most common errors that women make. Don't become a divorce statistic. See if these common errors would be the ones you would...
Posted on October 25, 2008Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse - Overt and Covert
If you are in a verbally/emotionally abusive relationship, awareness of it is the first step, and learning how to disengage may be the next step.
Posted on October 16, 20087 Rules for Saving Your Marriage
If your marriage is in trouble, the chances are that you and your partner are stuck in trying to control rather than learn. Changing your intent can heal your marriage.
Posted on June 26, 2008How to Gain Happiness in Life
Happiness is different for every person, and each different type of person has a different habit to gain happiness. Man is a social animal. To live in this society we had to face many challenges of life. Life is not always bed of roses. Thorns are...
Posted on May 16, 2008Goal of Every Individual in Life
Man without any motivation in life is like a bird without feather. It is the goal in life which keeps all human beings active and live. When child is born he is born with certain goal or motivation in life. Even when God has created this world he had...
Posted on March 24, 2008A Breakup Is Just A Wake Up Call
Oh dear, don't you have enough problems in life? And now you have one more - Your Breakup! But there's hope... A Breakup Is Just Another Wake Up Call, and You Can Break Free From It Quickly and Easily.
Posted on June 16, 2007There Are Ways of Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts
One way of saving your marriage before it starts is to build a hedge of protection around your new relationship. What not all newlyweds realize is that its important to protect your marriage from outside influences that have the power to undermine...
Posted on June 16, 2007Benefits of Marital Counseling Services
Counseling services, of course, can be helpful during exceedingly difficult times in your marriage. Counseling services also, though, can pay dividends when your relationship simply needs a "tune-up." If you think your marriage is doing fine but...
Posted on June 16, 2007Inside the Mind of the Married Man: How to Teach Him Some New Tricks
The single most e-mailed article on NYTimes.com of 2006 wasn't about the war or the Bush administration or a celebrity meltdown. It was about marriage. Well, actually, marriage and exotic animal training - a natural fit when you really think about...
Posted on June 16, 2007What are the most successful marriage tips?
Successful marriage tips can often involve complex and time-consuming processes. Successful marriage tips also, though, can require very little effort and still offer significant payoffs. Simply by giving your marriage a bit of attention, and...
Posted on April 1, 2006Married with Children and Less Sex
All too often, couples allow children to take center stage, placing the needs of the marriage on hold. Depending on the initial health of the marriage, this “holding pattern" can be successfully managed through compromise and good communication....
